Sexuality & Libido

Sexuality & Libido

Sexuality Men and Women 

When you meet someone you’re attracted to and the feeling is mutual, you assume that your body won't have any difficulty wanting to have sex. Sex is exciting - it activates all your senses and makes your heart beat faster, so that the blood is pumped around your body. It is sensual and pleasurable, making you want to experience that feeling over and over again. Sexuality is an important part of life for everyone, but sometimes you’re just less interested in sex than at other times. If you notice that you’re increasingly becoming less interested in sex and as a result your libido isn’t what you’d like it to be, just remember that help is at hand to give your body the support it needs in a natural way.

The male libido

Sometimes your mind is interested, but your body doesn’t cooperate and you find it difficult to get an erection. This is generally due to reduced blood supply to the penis. The penis is made up of erectile tissue, which fills with blood making the penis hard. The better the blood flow, the better the erection and the sex. There are various reasons why the blood supply may be reduced. Perhaps you’re wearing clothing that’s too tight, or maybe it’s because you’re getting older or due to other physical problems. Sometimes there’s a psychological reason why you’re unable to achieve an erection. Stress and an overfull mind can stop you feeling relaxed enough to get aroused. As a result, you don’t feel as much like having sex and you can’t easily get an erection. This can make you feel insecure, so you end up in a vicious circle of tension, stress, no erections and even more insecurity.

The female libido

Men aren’t the only ones who regularly feel like having sex; women also like sex. Arousal and good circulation in the vagina are very important for having pleasurable sex. A woman may have more libido at certain stages in her cycle than at others. The menstrual cycle affects when you feel like having sex through the various hormones associated with it. This means women are more interested in having sex around the time when they’re ovulating than just before their period. And then the menopause brings with it new physical inconveniences that can diminish the libido, including the problem of vaginal dryness. Just as for men, women’s interest in sex is influenced by their mood. When you’re stressed, tense and tired, this doesn’t help your libido.

Tips for a better sex life

It’s nice to be able to take pleasure in sex and enjoy each other. If you’re suffering from stress or feeling very tense because of something in your relationship or outside of it, then it’s a good idea to talk about this. This will bring you closer together in a different way - which will certainly benefit your sex life - and help you to clear your mind. It’s also really important to be well-rested and relaxed before you start having sex. Shake off the day’s stresses and strains first and take a hot shower - alone or with your partner. Have a meal together, talk about your day and relax by watching a good film on television. Plan an evening of sex with your partner and don’t rush things. Take your time and find new ways to enjoy love-making together. Trying out a new position is always a good way to titillate your senses. Use a lubricant on the days when you suffer from vaginal dryness, as this will make sex much more pleasurable.
Another recommendation to increase your sex drive is to take more exercise. Playing sport, walking or cycling will speed up your blood flow. Exercise also gives you a pleasant, positive feeling. Also make sure you sleep well, wear loose-fitting clothes and eat healthily. This will certainly help to increase your libido.

Supplements for your libido

Agent Performer (the erection booster for men) and Agent Provocateur (stimulating the female libido) are Dr. Becky’s top supplements for increasing your sexuality and sex drive. Agent Performer achieves this using maca root, tribulus and catuaba extracts, supplemented with zinc gluconate and sodium selenite pentahydrate. This combination of ingredients helps to relax the body, improves circulation and promotes the production of sperm cells. This means you can enjoy love-making for longer and achieve a more pleasurable orgasm. Agent Provocateur contains maca root, cranberry and ashwagandha extracts, several B vitamins and vitamin C. This combination promotes good circulation throughout your body and gives you more energy. Agent Provocateur can also help to keep your hormone levels in balance during your menstrual cycle and as you go through the menopause. This improves your sex drive throughout your cycle.
The maca root extract in the supplements gives your body an energy boost. This is particularly helpful when you do feel like having sex, but you simply don’t have enough energy.
Many supplements that help to increase your libido have to be taken at the time when you want to have sex. This takes a lot of the spontaneity out of love-making. Agent Performer and Agent Provocateur can be taken every day. This restores your body’s natural balance better and means you’re always ready for a spontaneous sex session.

Supplements to support your health

If you’ve been suffering from symptoms for some time and a food supplement doesn’t improve them, you should consult a doctor. Something else could be affecting your body and causing a reduction in your sex drive, difficulty achieving an erection or vaginal dryness. Psychological problems can also make you less interested in sex. Talking to an expert will help you to reconnect with yourself. If underlying problems can be ruled out, then a food supplement can provide support to improve the libido and enable your sex drive to increase.

More information from Dr. Becky

If you have any questions about the supplements to improve your libido, don’t hesitate to contact Dr. Becky. We’ll be happy to help and advise you on how to make your sex life more pleasurable.